David is facing a decision - and it is one with which I cannot help him. He has to decide between two programs and three destinations. He went for Shabbat, convinced he would choose the other option. Had a nice time with his friends and the program coordinators and is reconsidering.
One option would give him the possibility to be a paramedic...something he wants. But the army has decided that the investment in training is major and so wants to extend the amount of time paramedics must serve well beyond a year over what it is now. Currently 4 years (a year more than most others serve); to 5 years...
Five years for a boy who is only 18 is huge...he isn't sure.
It's a hard choice...boys his age in America are choosing what college they want to attend, where they'll go for the summer, if they'll buy a car. In Israel, they are choosing paths that will change their lives, shape them into the person they will be.
It isn't easy to watch him make this decision - anxious to offer advice, unsure what to say.
He's studying for tests, going to school, working a few hours here and there, taking driving lessons...and making a huge decision.
It isn't easy.